The hardest part of writing wedding vows is the first sentence. The cursor blinks, and you feel the pressure to write something profound immediately.
Here is the secret: Start simply. You don't need a poetic explosion; you just need to address the person you love.
Here are 5 proven ways to start your wedding vows:
1. The Direct Address (Classic)
Simple, effective, and timeless. Call them by name.
- "Sarah, you are my best friend."
- "James, I love you more than words can say."
2. The "Since The Beginning" (Storytelling)
Reference the moment you met or the moment you knew.
- "From the moment we met at that coffee shop, I knew my life was about to change."
- "I didn't believe in love at first sight until I saw you."
3. The Attribute (Compliment)
Start by listing the quality you admire most in them.
- "I love your kindness. It was the first thing I noticed about you."
- "You are the most patient person I have ever known."
4. The "Finally" (Relief)
Perfect for couples who dated for a long time or faced obstacles.
- "We finally made it."
- "I have been waiting for this day for seven years."
5. The Icebreaker (Funny)
Great for easing tension if you are nervous.
- "I promise to keep this short so we can get to the cake."
- "I bet you didn't think I'd actually finish writing these in time."
Next Steps
Once you have the first line, the rest flows easier. Move from the opening into why you love them, and then list your promises.