I promise to lead and to serve.

This for-him wedding vow is a heartfelt way to express your commitment.

I promise to lead with humility and to serve with love. I will be the first to apologize, the first to forgive, and the last to let go of your hand.

Why it Works

  • Uses the concept of "servant leadership"
  • Strong, traditional masculine virtues

Personalize it

  • Mention a specific way you will "serve" (e.g., taking care of the home, listening)
  • Add "I will lead us in [faith/adventure/kindness]"
Ideal for grooms who value traditional leadership roles grounded in service.